You know that saying, "I need to take a vacation from my vacation" ?
I need one of those.
It's been less than two weeks since we've gotten back from our three-month hiatus on the island of the gods.
And what a strange trip it has been.
I feel like I'm in still in a half-dreamy state, yet I feel like I could conquer the world. What gives? My feet are physically planted on the summer-y shores of California, my heart is still lingering with ever-sweet wanderlust, and my mind is in a state of creative frenzy. It could be at bit annoying, and sometimes I don't know what to do with myself.
But I am embracing it.
My time away has given me a new perspective on life: appreciation for the little things we take for granted; the true meaning behind what it means to live an authentic, genuine life; what it means to nurture the relationships you have with loved ones, family, friends --- and, more importantly, yourself.
If you really want to get sappy, why not extend the goodness further to your acquaintances, business colleagues, and the kind stranger who held the door open for you at Starbucks?
My time away has given me the time to think about how I truly want to live my life. I've always been a sucker for lifestyle design. No, I'm not talking about the latest styles in Vogue, or what the hot new colors for kitchen make-overs are; nor am I talking about the latest trends in how to make your garden eco-friendly. Don't get me wrong --- I love all that --- I can spend hours drooling enviously over colorful magazine spreads while sipping on macha green tea.
Life style design is more than that. It's about how you create a more passionate, authentic life --- where time (and what you do with it) holds more value than what material wealth can ever give you in a lifetime.
Tim Ferriss, of the Four Hour Work Week defines Lifestyle Design as:
...those who abandon the deferred-life plan and create luxury lifestyles in the present using the currency of the New Rich: time and mobility. This is an art and a science..."
Life doesn’t have to be so damn hard. It really doesn’t. Most people, my past self included, have spent too much time convincing themselves that life has to be hard, a resignation to 9-to-5 drudgery in exchange for (sometimes) relaxing weekends and the occasional keep-it-short-or-get-fired vacation.
People don’t want to be millionaires — they want to experience what they believe only millions can buy. Ski chalets, butlers, and exotic travel often enter the picture. Perhaps rubbing cocoa butter on your belly in a hammock while you listen to waves rhythmically lapping against the deck of your thatched-roof bungalow? Sounds nice.
$1,000,000 in the bank isn’t the fantasy. The fantasy is the lifestyle of complete freedom it supposedly allows. The question is then, How can one achieve the millionaire lifestyle of complete freedom without first having $1,000,000?"
So that's the big question. I wish had the answer for you. But I don't. We all have choices. Little choices we make along the way to make the enriching (or not so enriching) lives we create for ourselves. All I know is that I am trying my best to live a meaningful life with out too much drama, and so far, I'm liking it.
"So, you went on a dream trip to Bali and now you're back in Cali...what's next?"
Brendon and I have been having an influx of ideas rush through our brains since we've been away. I blame it on Bali (or maybe, it's just an extreme case of adult ADD in both of our cases, who knows?)
I’d like to approach our business goals more creatively, and I’d like to reach a wider audience online, as well. All this, while dreaming up a Lifestyle Design plan we've always wanted to create for ourselves. We've been brainstorming and planning non-stop. I know, we're crazy. But whatevs...anything is possible right?
As soon as I stepped off the plane, I started working my buns off, updating the website for Channel Islands Landscape. I am also in the process of creating conceptual designs for a new website (still in its early, early stages --- excited, but nervous!) The most fulfilling part of this whole experience is connecting with other beautiful, amazing women and entrepreneurial spirits along the way...it's been very empowering.
So that's the scoop.
Being a millionaire is one thing. Having rich, meaningful experiences is another. And of course, we can have both. But I’ll save that story for another time.